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Juan Jose Borda Leyva: He Kept to Himself

 

Juan Jose Borda Leyva was stingy with words. "If someone said good morning to him, he would say good morning," said his mother, Ana Borda. "If someone said good afternoon, that's what he would say, too. He wouldn't say more. He wanted nothing to do with anyone, he didn't want to get into their business."

Mr. Borda, 59, was born and raised in Colombia, and came to this country with his widowed mother about 35 years ago, she said. He did odd jobs -- painting, maintenance work, working in restaurants. They lived together in a small apartment in the Bronx.

He helped her with the rent and with grocery money, but both mother and son were independent and kept to themselves, said Mrs. Borda, who is 81. When he came home from work, she said, "He would say hello, bathe, eat his dinner, watch a little TV and then go to bed &emdash; that's all."

Did he have many friends or a girlfriend? "I told you, he kept to himself," she said. She does not have a photograph of him. On Sept. 11, he told her he was going to the trade center for a job interview. He did not tell her what job, with whom, or what floor. Still, his mother said, "He was my everything."

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From "Profiles in Grief" of The New York Times  

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