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Mark Bruce: Call of the Wild West

 

MarkMark Bruce's childhood reads like a Steinbeck novel. The grandson of Nebraskans, Mr. Bruce grew up in 1960's San Luis Obispo -- a sleepy agricultural town near California's central coast with a Rexall drugstore, a creek to fish in, and where kids rode their bikes to 4H meetings.

But unlike Steinbeck's characters, Mr. Bruce moved to the city, and then East. He studied business, and went to work in the Bay Area, where he met Dawn Bryfogle, who was there on a business trip from New York in the late 1980's. "He was very high- energy," she said. He was a joker and a mimic, he took part in sports, he loved hiking and flyfishing. Their first date was at a restaurant on San Francisco Bay. "That was the beginning of a two-year bicoastal relationship," she said. When a job offer came from New York, Mr. Bruce, 40, left the West behind.

He got his break at Bear Stearns before becoming a trader in mortgage-backed securities at Sandler O'Neill & Partners in the World Trade Center. He shared the commute from Summit, N.J., with Ms. Bryfogle (they married in 1992). He brought a ferretlike intensity to his work while retaining his small-town demeanor.

But the West still called to the couple. They felt drawn to mountain air and open space. They looked for a house in Montana, but had not decided if it would be their primary home or a vacation home, if they would really move or if they would stay in New York. Now, Ms. Bryfogle is ready to make a decision. She said, "The West is the place that I look to when I think about moving forward in my own life."

 

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From "Profiles in Grief" of The New York Times  

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