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Erwin L. Erker: Family Vacation Planner

 

ErwinErwin L. Erker and his wife, Ann, met when she worked at a McDonald's in Queens where he had once worked. They saw the film "Halloween" on their first date. "From then on, we were together," Mrs. Erker said.

Mr. Erker, 41, a vice president at Marsh and McLennan, used to plan vacations for the family, which includes Lauren, 13, and Andrew, 10. He had a soft spot for the cabins at Kampgrounds of America. He picked campgrounds near points of interest like Salem, Mass., Luray Caverns, and Dorney Park in Pennsylvania, Mrs. Erker said, recalling the trip when Big E (his nickname, for his large personality) stole her doughnut.

"Nobody owned up to it, but he had it," she said. "It was in his pocket. He was a sweets fanatic."

Their only bad vacation, she said, involved an uninvited mouse in a rented house when they went skiing one year. But it wasn't all bad: "We laughed all weekend."

"He always did things with the kids," she said. Lauren plays the trombone, and he liked attending her concerts and listening to her jazz festival CD. He went to Islanders games with Andrew, and they played basketball tournaments in Andrew's room, using a hoop attached to his closet door. It is still there.

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From "Profiles in Grief" of The New York Times  

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