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MICHAEL FERUGIO: The Measure of a Man

 

Mike"The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good." Samuel Johnson, the 18th- century man of letters, wrote it, and Michael Ferugio lived it.

He came from Smalltown, U.S.A. Pottsville is an aging coal-mining town in the northeastern hills of Pennsylvania, and like many young people there, Mr. Ferugio, 37, left to make his fortune.

Still, he took something with him. His father was a steam-pipe fitter, his mother a homemaker. They imparted some regular folk wisdom to him that he did not abandon: "You're no better than anyone else."

"We used to fight because he said hello to strangers," said his wife, Susan, 34, who grew up in Queens and lived with her husband in Brooklyn. "I'm a New Yorker, and I told him you can't do that here."

But he did, top to bottom. As an insurance broker at Aon, he ate breakfast with chief executives at the World Trade Center, and when he was done, he made small talk with the secretaries. After his death, Susan went through his phone book. Inside were the numbers of half a dozen janitors. His friends.

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From "Profiles in Grief" of The New York Times  

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