CARLTON W. BARTELS: Wraparound
Buddha
Her
father was aghast: there on the doorstep of her family's
West Brighton home in Staten Island stood Carlton W.
Bartels, suitor. "Carl had thick, wavy brown hair, down
to his shoulders," recalled Jane Bartels, the object of
his affection, decades later. "And a suede fringe
jacket."
The couple managed to date and grow close, but then
careers separated them. While in his 20's, Mr. Bartels
took an 18- month trip around the world with his savings.
He asked her to join him in Jakarta, where they inched
toward Europe. They married in 1988. Mr. Bartels was an
electrical engineer by training and had become, at 26,
one of the top utility regulators in Vermont. At 44, he
was a partner at Cantor Fitzgerald, specializing in using
the commodity markets to encourage the reduction of
greenhouse gases.
Mr. Bartels had his antic side, Mrs. Bartels recalled.
While on his epic trip, living in a Thai village, Mr.
Bartels took to wearing a favorite sarong, a
black-and-white skirt with Buddha figures. But one day,
the villagers giggled. He was wearing a sarong for a
woman. Unfazed, he continued to wear it, even back home,
years later, when the couple had settled back in Staten
Island. Their daughters --Melina, who turns 8 today, and
Eva, 4-- loved it.
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