JOSEPH JOHN BERRY: Vacations With
the Children
Joseph
John Berry, a man who left big tips and who once urged a
nervous friend to go through with her wedding because
"marriage is a wonderful thing," simply hated the idea of
a vacation without his three children. Never mind that
they are all grown now, with the youngest 21 and the
oldest 27. Whether it was a trip to Italy or one of their
annual pilgrimages to Aruba for New Year's Eve, "our
children came with us," Evelyn Berry said. "All three of
them. All the time. Wherever we go, whatever vacation. To
this day, if we're going away they're there with us."
"How many children do you know who spend every New
Year's with their parents?"
To Mrs. Berry, who would have celebrated her 32nd
wedding anniversary next month, this is the essential
fact of her husband's life, not the honors he collected
as one of the most influential Irish-Americans on Wall
Street, or the professional status he enjoyed as chairman
and co-chief executive of Keefe, Bruyette & Woods, an
investment banking firm, but the fact that he also
coached just about every team his children ever played
on, from soccer to basketball.
"If anything, we were more in love today than when we
first got married," Mrs. Berry said.
Mr. Berry, 55, who worked on the 89th floor of 2 World
Trade Center, died on his wife's 54th birthday.
"The fact that he's gone is the greatest pain," she
said. "The day it happened is immaterial."
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