JESUS N. CABEZAS: Stone Face, Warm
Heart
Jesus
N. Cabezas was full of whimsy and scrappiness. At his
daughter's wedding, he cast his chiseled Ecuadorean
features into a stone-faced glare as he posed for a
picture. "He called it his picture face," said his
daughter, Blanca I. Bowers, laughing. "You'll see a lot
of pictures of him looking really serious. But if you
know him you laugh, because he's just being silly."
Mr. Cabezas, 66, of Bushwick, Brooklyn, a cook at
Windows on the World, was full of fight even though he
was only 5 feet 5 inches tall and 150 pounds. Thirteen
years ago, he won a battle with colon cancer. Another
time, he arrived home holding a knife that he had taken
from a mugger during a struggle, Mrs. Bowers recalled.
Mischievously, he expressed regret for not being able to
return it. " 'He ran away before I could give it back,' "
she recalled him saying.
"He could have killed you," his wife yelled.
"He's not going to waste his time on me," he told her.
"Don't worry. I'm going to be here for a long time."
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