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JASON CAYNE: In Love With Togetherness

 

JasonIt was this weekly ritual that Jason Cayne relished:

Every Friday and Saturday evening, Mr. Cayne and his wife, Gina, would hook up with Mrs. Cayne's sisters and brothers-in-law, along with a few other friends, and go out to bars and clubs and just have a rollicking good time. There would be as many as a dozen of them, packed into a couple of cars, traveling in the environs of Marlboro, N.J., where the Caynes lived.

"We'd be out literally every weekend," Mrs. Cayne said. "We'd meet at my mother's house. We'd fight about who would be designated drivers. And then we'd party."

Mr. Cayne, 32, a bond broker at Cantor Fitzgerald, liked togetherness. "We could be sitting around and doing nothing, but that was O.K.," Mrs. Cayne said. "He just wanted us to be together."

Mrs. Cayne is the oldest of four sisters. They all adored Mr. Cayne when they met him, and the fondness grew exponentially. "My sisters always said he's the sort of man they wanted to marry," said Mrs. Cayne, who was the first of the four to marry. Two sisters have followed, with men they compare quite favorably to Mr. Cayne. The fourth is still looking for her replica.

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From "Profiles in Grief" of The New York Times  

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