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Andrew J. Desperito: He Died Rescuing 'Josephine'

  

AndrewLaura Desperito is desperately searching for a Josephine who survived the World Trade Center disaster. She doesn't know who Josephine is-or even her last name. But she wants to find out.

All Desperito knows is that her husband, Andrew, a firefighter, saved the woman last Tuesday.

She found out about the woman and her husband's heroism from Capt. Kenny Erb of Engine Co. 1 whenhe arrived at her East Patchogue home at 1:30 a.m. Wednesday to tell her that Andrew had died in the disaster.

Now Laura wants her three children- Nicole, 13, Anthony, 10 and David, 6-to know about the woman their father saved.

"He ordered his men out," Laura said. "He said, 'I'll be just a few steps behind you.' He just happened to be a few steps too close to the building."

Andrew, 43, always wanted to be a firefighter. But he first became a police officer in 1984 until he received his call of a lifetime from the fire department in 1987.

"He was ecstatic," Laura recalled. "It was the best thing that ever happened to him."

He rose to the rank of lieutenant and worked at Engine No. 1 on 31st Street in Chelsea.

Just last month the family had spent nearly a week vacationing at Walt Disney World. "It was like the best vacation we ever had," Laura said, noting that the children were a little older now than when they had taken them on previous vacations and had more stamina to stay in the park longer.

Laura knew Andrew was the man she would marry shortly after they met in 1979. "It didn't take me long because he always treated me like a queen," Laura said.

They married on Sept. 25, 1982, and would have celebrated their 19th anniversary next week. The couple already had plans to vacation in Hawaii and Las Vegas for their 25th anniversary in 2007, just as they had done for their 10th anniversary.

Andrew loved to cook. "People would say, 'Oh, Laura, this is the best dish I ever had,' and I'd say, 'Tell my husband,'" she said.

Last Tuesday morning, Laura walked into a Sam's Club store and saw everyone gathered around TV sets.

She rushed home. "Everyone was calling to say, 'Oh, I think I saw him [on TV],'" Laura recalled.

She finally reached the firehouse by telephone. "They said, 'Well everybody made it back. We're hoping Andy's in the hospital,'" she said.

That's all she heard until the wee hours of Wednesday morning.

(Newsday)

 


The last time Andrew Desperito, 43, was summoned to rescue victims of a terrorist bombing of the World Trade Center, in 1993, he suffered from smoke inhalation but otherwise emerged unscathed.

Last week, as Desperito escorted a woman to safety from the north tower, he was buried under crumbling rubble.

"Your father died a hero," Laura Desperito told the couple's three children, Nicole, 13, Anthony, 10, and David, 6.

Desperito joined the New York Police Department in 1984, and transferred to the city's fire department in 1987. His wife finds comfort in knowing that he gave his life helping others, and that the woman he was aiding at the time survived.

"It was so typical of him," Laura Desperito said.

Like many firefighters, there was more to Desperito's life than the fire hall.

Desperito, of East Patchouge, Long Island, believed it was a father's duty to coach his children's soccer teams, even though he had never played.

So he attended coaching seminars and clinics, studied the game on television, and in his own quiet way led Anthony's team to a league victory.

"He never yelled at the kids on the sidelines when they were playing," Laura Desperito said. "He'd see all these other coaches going nuts, and he'd just be quiet. He was never negative about anything."

In addition to his wife and children, Desperito is survived by his parents, Adele and Anthony Desperito, and a sister, Diane Laveglia, of Greenpoint, N.Y.

 

(The Los Angeles Times)

 


 

Andrew Desperito, 43, spent three years as a New York City police officer before becoming a firefighter 14 years ago. He stayed behind helping victims in One World Trade Center, even after Two World Trade Center had collapsed.

"I always knew he was a hero," said his wife, Laura, who would have celebrated their 19th wedding anniversary this month. "He was incredible, and I'm drawing my strength from him."

Desperito was a father of three and enjoyed coaching his 10-year-old son's soccer team in the East Patchogue, N.Y., area where they lived.

Laura Desperito said she has learned her husband was on the 23rd floor of One World Trade Center when he and the men he was with heard a roar and were told over their radios that the other building had come down.

The men headed outside, but Desperito said she has been told by her husband's team that he stopped and ordered them ahead after coming across a woman having trouble making her escape. He had just exited when the building collapsed.

"He was too close," his wife said.

Desperito's body was among the first recovered last week, Laura Desperito said, and a wake was held for him Sunday.

Desperito said she had been planning the family's future, including renovations to their home. Now she is deciding where to bury her husband.

"There's a cemetery here, where through the trees you can see where the children play soccer," she said. "He can hear them and he'll be happy."

 

(The Chicago Tribune)

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