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Steven Gregory Genovese: Those Matching Pajamas

 

StevenThe first time the World Trade Center was attacked, in 1993, Steven Gregory Genovese showed up hours later at a Hoboken bar, much to his family's relief. So they held out hope last fall that he would surface once again.

His older brother, John Thomas, who lives in Manhattan, awaited his arrival with pizza. Steven's wife, Shelly, had dinner and strawberry bread for him at their home in Basking Ridge, N.J., every night that week.

Now when the question of his whereabouts comes up, his 18-month-old daughter, Jacqueline, chimes in. "He's up," she says.

Mr. Genovese was 37. Family and friends still cannot fathom it.

His mother, Veronica, recalls a hard-working boy who once used his 25-cent allowance to buy her a miniature cup and saucer at a neighbor's yard sale. A so-so student, as she put it, who rose to become a partner at Cantor Fitzgerald.

His wife recalls a husband quick to tell everyone that "they" were pregnant with Jacqueline, and one who wore pajamas that matched his wife's and daughter's as they opened presents on Christmas morning, a tradition in her family. "He thought we were the biggest dorks dressing alike," Ms. Genovese said, "but he totally went along with it."

This Christmas, no one was in the mood.

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From "Profiles in Grief" of The New York Times  

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